Hi Beautiful Lady,
If you are reading this then you are a lady ready to take radical responsibility for her life and make the changes required to start living a life you love.
But you are probably also wondering what makes me stand out from all the other coaches you looked at today, I am right?
To be honest, I can't really answer that question for you. There are many great coaches on this platform and I am sure most of them will be able to help you in one way or another. For me, it is all about the energy of a person, do they get my situation, are they able to support and encourage me on my journey but also keep me accountable at the same time?
I'll tell you my story and leave it up to you to answer that question :)
I grew up in a very chaotic household where my dad was always working and my mom wasn't around. I left me feeling always too much and never enough at the same time. I started developing insecurities, got bullied at school and went looking for love and attention in all the wrong places.
Towards age 17 I was already very far down the rabbit hole and even finding Jesus and accepting Him into my life wasn't enough to get me back on track. How could I accept His love for me if I never experienced unconditional love, and definitely didn't love myself?
Rock bottom came at age 24 when I decided to take my own life as nobody loved me and would miss me anyways. Thankfully God wasn't done with me yet and He put my best friend on my path to tell me that despite what I believed, I was very loved by her and her family and she would definitely miss me if I was gone.
That was the beginning of my realization of God's love for me and the healing of my heart. Before that, I was always throwing myself into bad relationships because I didn't feel worthy of anything else. Now with God's love in my heart, I slowly started to realize my worth and that I was valuable, both in relationships and in the greater sense of life.
I started focusing on making an impact in the world and how I could use my talents and experiences for good. It wasn't until I enrolled in a life coaching course to find my purpose that I realized I could help other women do the same. I now realize that everything I have gone through makes me able to relate to women who are experiencing guilt, shame, fear, anxiety, low self-esteem, lack of confidence and so much more related to us not knowing who we truly are in Christ.
I am passionate about and committed to helping these women, change their relationships with themselves and others, find out who they were created to be and what they are destined to do, overcome their insecurities and fears, and give them the confidence to shine as the fierce women they are.
I just wanted to let you know, I see you, I know what you have been through but it doesn't always have to be this way. I can help you transform your life, find the happiness and fulfillment you have been searching for such a long time. Are you willing to take a leap of faith?
With Love & Gratitude,
Tessa Hopman a.k.a. The Vinedresser
New Zealand 🇳🇿